Dad called tonight and Joe is coming up on Tuesday for more tests. We'll find out then how serious it is and if it has spread or anything. He went to bed early tonight because he felt so weak and my dad is really upset. I also just ache for his boys, my cousins, they are devastated. Uncle Joe is just such a fantastic person. He's caring and non-judgemental, easy-going and warm. He and my Aunt Linda are just a joy to be around.